Yes! It is a struggle not to conform to what the world teaches to be acceptable. Like pornography, pre-marital and casual sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is beautiful and enjoyable. But it becomes ugly when it's not inside the context of marriage. I for one, has messed up before. You see sometimes, the heart is sooo deceiving.
With a personality such as mine, knowing how I enjoy exploration, huh! believe me, it's not easy. But since I messed up before already, and I don't want that to happen again, I have made a vow to God and to myself to only do it within marriage. (when i get married someday...if i'm not yet married, not that I know of...yay!!) You see, God also wants us to enjoy pro creation, because God invented sex for love making and pro creation - for us to also enjoy and explore. And yes, sex is Holy, only and only if it is done inside marriage.
Keep in mind that one cannot just live like a rabbit because we're human beings, right? Not unless you hop instead of walk and you have two big ears on top of your head. You see, we need "love" and "companionship". Someone who's going to take care of us and build a family with us. Because it is super impossible to just enjoy sex everyday without love and companionship.
Don't tell me you'd still enjoy doing it as much even if you're all wrinkly, and old, and 98 years old. Not unless you're an alien or something.
Therefore, we have to guard our hearts, because sometimes we may feel so overwhelmed with love and get deceived that by doing it, we can express what we feel for the other person.
We should also keep guard of the things that we read, watch and listen to, because most often than not, these things inflict sexual immorality and make us believe that this immorality is "normal" and "acceptable."
Believe me, I can't wait to do it - because the next time I'll do, it's going to be right! - with my lucky husband =) only and only with him....
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